May I introduce the The Barrister, currently fighting & righting wrongs at the Bar back in London? He has provided the following thought regarding my experiences with being hit on by men who are in relationships here in Manhattan.
"I really don't know what to suggest. I almost despair indeed. I can't understand why chaps with birds go looking for another unless the first relationship is so worn-out that it would fail the moment the chap in question met you. That is undesirable but understandable. What is maddening is the horrific arrogance and, more to the point, absence of any finer feeling represented in a chap with a bird seeking to shag another while leaving bird 1 in situ"
Hear, hear I say.